Thursday, June 21, 2007

don't know emo

My sixteen year old son helps me tune in to popular culture - that is, the youth culture. On the trailing cusp of the baby boom, I'd been in the near majority so long (my birthday is on the downside of the rounded mountain in this chart) that to be clueless is totally disorienting. Plus, the net gives one the illusion that one is keeping up ...and I read Wired .

A coupla years ago when I was still teaching high school ( another plug in that caused me to be simultaneously apprised of youth culture and divorced from it) a hip female student used the word "emo" . I inquired and was given a passable definition of "emotional", esp. as relates to music.

Today the term was employed in a NY Times article referencing the style of Rosie O'Donnell's blogs , and I found myself stymied.


"No, " my son explained, "emo would never be in a hard rock song, it would be a happy sounding song that had pathetic lyrics about life sucks and I'm sad. "

"Oh." I said, only partially enlightened. I'm clearly not getting the subtler connotations of emo.

Which brings me to my time wasting activity for the day - deleting 750 names from my Plaxo

Before I had my own business that would have been termed "goofing off" . This was in fact a necessary business task as I'm about to send a mass mailing with my new website info
in preparation for a grand opening of the bookstore.

But back to my point, it seems there were 750 people I no longer knew, some of whom I couldn't recall having known in the first place. Admittedly, there was a perverse satisfaction to deleting those I'd never liked, a sort of asceticism , paring down to the essentials, nothing but the best and all that crap.

Though women aren't billed as having monastic values often, I could muster something, perhaps end up like this
...an image that turns up when I look for monastic, rather apropos, I thought, with a touch of wit. Not to worry, we won't be doing the catholic thing, and almost no one wears a habit today except those in cinematic comic relief.